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What's with all the mixed signals? Was she getting close to me just because she was drunk?

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Question - (20 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *en345 writes:

I'm 18 and recently started a new job. I have a female colleague a year younger who invited me on a night out with her friends. I met them in town and as it got busier we all started holding hands to avoid getting seperated. Funny thing was, I found me and her were still holding hands sometimes even when the crowds had gone. We started dancing together and made out. She beckoned me into the corner and we kissed again, and from then on, held hands and cuddled all night. At the end of the night, a stranger came up and asked if I was her boyfriend. Weirdly enough, she said yes. We kissed goodbye in the taxi, but nothing has happened since. We text and talk lots but I haven't seen any other signs. She seems slightly colder. Was she just drunk?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (21 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntQuite a bit of girls get "friendly" with male friends, other males while drunk. Sometimes it's just the alcohol talking. Other times, it can be hidden feelings they wouldn't act on while sober.

Perhaps, you should do like Aunt honesty said and ring her to see if she would like to go out with you on a date (sober)?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (20 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell she invited you out, so that shows that she is interested in you as a person anyway. I think maybe she is waiting for you to make the next move. It sounds to me like she does like you. She is probably thinking the same as you and wondering where you just drunk. Why not ask her out and see what happens.

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