what's a good amount of time to spend with your significant other?

A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Would just like some opinions please! what's a good amount of time to spend with your significant other? My gf and I saw each other a lot when we first went out and now a year later, she seems happy with maybe a once a week / let's watch a movie and have sex thing. I would like us to see each other maybe twice a week if possible at the minimum, and it's not just because I want sex with her - I just love being around her. We both have busy lives with kids, and i know she's a fan of having her "alone" time. I know a couple who are getting married after dating for 5 years on the "once a week" plan and to me it just seems strange. Why be in a relationship if you're ok with barely seeing the person you're with?

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