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female
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30-35,
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writes:It's been about a year and a half since my ex and I broke up. We had been together for 3 years, and I had a crush on him since the age of 12.Last September I moved away to college, and met a new guy who is just amazing. I fell for him within a month, and in October we started a serious "relationship". I really care about him, and it's been just over 5 months that we've been together.The conversation about my ex came up, and he asked me if i had loved Joe (my ex). I didn't respond, and he pushed for the answer .. so I responded, yes. My boyfriend and I have our arguments, but every couple goes through that. Right?My ex and I started talking again, and we've realized that we still have feelings for each other. We want each other REALLY bad but we don't feel good about breaking our "lovers'" hearts.What should I do?! They're both really amazing .. but I've been in love with Joe since 7th grade!Ahhhh!! Please help!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 You will see whose love is the longest, deepest , meaningful and fulfilling.
Take your time to decide until one of them decides to conceit defeat.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 March 2010):
Neither guy is right for you. You and you're ex couldn't make it work before, so it won't work now. And this so called 'amazing' guy isn't really anything to you because you actually spoke to your ex. End it with both and focus on your own life.
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