A
male
age
30-35,
*luenee
writes:My girlfriend,studies in india,and she is now here back to own country.. Out of thirty five days vacation now only ten days remain. Recently we 've not met much.. Don't know what I shall do. We love each other, but i'm not satisfied with her. She rarely contacts me. I can't even ignore her because she'll have to get back to India. Then ignoring her is just waste of days that i could use to spend good times with her. We recently did our first kiss too. She loves me. But i feel bad when she uses internet but never call me online herself. Opposite to it is i wait for her to be online. Don't know what shall i do regarding this matter..
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 LDRs are hard. very hard.
you need
trust
communication
honesty
meeting in real life time
and most of all
an END to the distance gap...
I'm also going to say that LDRs at your age are often destined to fail...
you are not having meeting in real ife
you are not having communication
if you have no idea when the distance will end
perhaps at this point it's better to end it.
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female
reader, confusedsoultrapped +, writes (27 October 2011):
 im no expert its just i was going through the same thing with my ex. we just broke up days ago and he appears to as not bothered by it at all. he lives in vegas and I live in t.n i love him. I love him dearly and im heart broken but im also 34 and he was 21 so i kinda wear the weight because I feel like I should be old enough to just deal. but it hurts like hell. he barely contacted me but would be online say he didnt have a way but yet be posting on facebook all day long. i say he loved me but now i really do not know what I believe. to make a long story short i think long distance relationships only work if both people are truly dedicated but these days you dnt know the truth cause people will say anything weither they mean it or not. you say she loves you? I believe you. but if you're unhappy and unsatisfied please change your situation because everyone has the exact love life they want!! you know what you want and what you need. if you not getting that at the end you cant blame anyone because you chose to stay in.talk to her tell her how you feel.IF she does everything she possibly can in her power to make more a effort to make you feel the love you need. then by all means be happy!!love each other and never let go.but if you still see the same outcome with you questioning yourself, her or the relationship then sweet heart let her go!! because the hurt will be worse and last longer and do more damage later. love your self first always because although i miss my guy deeply and want him back deep down..I truly know he wasnt good for me because if he truly loved me the way he said he did then nothing wsould of pulled him away when I needed him. i hope this helps some. good luck..truly
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