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writes:My ex dumped me out of the blue by text, after a year. He was rude and it was full of insults. I was a good girlfriend and never cheated. He turned everyone against me. How do I make him regret it? Do people like this ever do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I never got to ask the mutual friends anything, couldn't get a word in at all.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 You can't. You can not make people DO anything they don't want to.
But you can be glad you are rid of this douchebag. So live life, be happy, move on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2011):
There is no way you can make someone like that regret it. If he treated you that badly, it meant he didn't care. If he didn't care then, then he won't care what you do now. Worse, if he did turn a lot of people against you, then getting revenge won't help at all and you're more likely to wind up even more hurt.
You need to remain a good person and just cut him and the others out of your life. Don't try to make someone like this regret it - he'll just make it worse for you and you'll look desperate.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Am afraid there is nothing in this world that you can do to make him regret it. It is quite strange why after a year he would just do this out of the blue. Did he give you any reason for ending the relationship? Or for being rude and insulting to you? Obviously something upset him when he turned on you and turned people against you. Have you spoke to these people to see why they have turned against you. Instead of trying to make him regret it, ask him to be honest with you about why he done this, he should have the decency to be honest with you, and if he doesn't just remember it is his loss and you are better off without him if he is going to treat you like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): If you want to make him regret it, do nothing. Let him think you are happy. Any man who would treat you like that is not worth your time. I know it will be hard, but don't contact him. If he tries to come back, remember how bad you feel right now, don't allow him to put you through it again.
I had a man dump me via email while I was at work. I didn't expect it, I didn't know there was another woman he cared about. When that didn't work out, he wanted me. We got back together it was never the same & we are no longer together.
Learn from this & find someone who will treat you with respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): If you want to make him regret it, do nothing. Let him think you are happy. Any man who would treat you like that is not worth your time. I know it will be hard, but don't contact him. If he tries to come back, remember how bad you feel right now, don't allow him to put you through it again. I had a man dump me via email while I was at work. I didn't expect it, I didn't know there was another woman he cared about. When that didn't work out, he wanted me. We got back together it was never the same and we are no longer together. Learn from this and find someone whowill treat you with respect.
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