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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years. We recently started living together. Im starting up a business, and so stressed. Im not the worlds tidiest person but I do make an effort.She does get on my back at this a lot, I tell her it will be done, and it always is, arguably not right away but it is done.Yesterday she said this again, and i snapped....told her I had enough, packed my stuff with the intention to leave. Once I calmed down I realised that most of this was external stuff I was taking out on her.She was crying her eyes out, and shaking thinking we were over, although we have made up, my stomach twists at the thought of seeing her like that. How can I stop this feeling? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 You need to sit down together and calmly discuss what happened. I think that if you both can understand why this happened then you will relax. Right now you're feeling guilty, she's feeling miserable, and while you've "made up," do you really know what you made up about?
When things brew for a long time and explode, it is usually way worse than if you had just talked about it when it was happening. Sit down and talk this out. These types of fights happen and how you deal with them will be the key to if your relationship will last.
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