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writes: I asked my husband the other day that if a woman he knew winked at him what would he think and he said 'I would think she wants to know me more, she fancies me'. I asked him what he thought if a bloke winked at me and he said 'I would worry'. He said that if a male friend winked at me and smiled he wouldn't see it as just being a friend he would see it as they wanted something more.He's normally pretty good on body language and I hope he is wrong as on a few occasions a friend of his has winked and smiled at me and I am not sure whether I should tell him as I don't want to destroy their friendship. Has he got this sort of body language wrong and the bloke is just being friendly. Reply to this Question
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I think he was just being friendly - you dont have anything to worry about unless he tries it on with you or starts flirting with you.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I woulden't say anything as you could be reading the signs wrong.
When i am talking to people whether it be male or femail i sometimes wink when finishing a conversation, or saying goodby, its an expression alot of people use and don't even realise they are doing it half the time.
I would hate to think that everyone i subconsciously winked at thought i fancied them. I woulden't worry about it, unless he makes an inappropriate advance torwards you.
Good luck x
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Unless he makes a move, don't even worry about it. Let it roll off your back, unless he takes some sort of innappropriate action.
DV1
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