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writes:So, i dated her once and after a time i asked for a second date and she rejected the second date over and over again with different excuses. After all this, situation has been uncomfortable in class with her. I still really really like her. I can't stop thinking abot her face. She even did blonde highlights in her hair. She is physically and psychologically prefect for me, she just doesn't likes me? I trying to move on as you said guys but she is THE GIRL for me and every time i think of her i just wanna cry in anguish. I knew i it was going to hurt if it didn't work but i had high hopes after we dated for the first time and imagined a whole relationship with her. I just want to just grab her and yell at her how much i like her and that she is my everything but i know that will make it even worse and that is not correct. I swear i felt a connection with her. Omg, my eyes are wet right now.My friends say that i should go and properly tell her that i love her and close the thing.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (5 June 2015):
 Dude get a hold on yourself!! What are you doing? You'll just end up scaring her, as I'm sure you already have by coming on too strong. You might like her but if she doesnt feel the same way for you, there's really nothing you can do about it.
I know that at your age you feel like its the end of the world but trust me, its not. Unrequited love is common, it just hurts like hell but I'm sure most people at some point of time or the other have gone through it, in varying degrees. You just have to deal with it in the right way and you CANNOT and I repeat, CANNOT lay a finger on her and yell at her and try to convince her. You'll be behind bars in no time.
Remember OP, you cannot force anyone to like you. If it happens naturally, its great. If not then you just have to accept it and move on with dignity.
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