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writes:There is a guy in my friendship circle, met 3 months ago I'm pretty sure he likes me but then again I am also seriously doubting as well. I have such an intense crush on him. Signs that make me think he does are: He "accidentally" touches me a lot; looks at me a lot; uses my full name a lot instead of the shortened version that everyone else uses; seems jealous of other guys at times; I told him I was cold once and he said "I'm always warm. feel my hands" and he held my hand in both his for ages and looked me deep in the eyes. He also dropped a hint on a text... he was referring to some event he was going to organise and he asked if I fancied going, I said yeah and I said who else is going and he said just you and me at the moment and I said "sounds good to me" and he replied "you'd be happy if you and I went?" and i replied "yeah of course. And the others" because I didn't want to lay my cards fully on the table in case he rejected me. Well the other thing is that I'm not sure about : he always tells me about girls he finds hot and points them out to me. So that's not a good sign. However last night he said to some other people in the group that I am the female version of him when I cracked a joke (we find the same things funny) is this a positive? Does he like me? Arregh I'm genuinely not sure; I mean like I say I think he might, because I have the feeling but he is very outgoing and flirty and so this throws me off a bit. Help, advice, insight please xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2017): Well, it sounds like he's friendly; but maybe doesn't have a romantic interest. Either that, or he's just serving meaningless flirtations; because he senses you're attracted to him. Boosting his male-ego.
To be honest, I think he's just messing around with you. I think he'd be a lot more direct, if he was really interested.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (30 August 2017):
 No, this one is just a close friend. If he were serious he would probably behave differently. Just relax. If he wants to take you out he will ask you. Men are quite direct. We don't do hints.
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