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What would you think if your other half seeks emotional support from the opposite sex?

Q.   I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas......

A.   4 December 2012: You are right, no one should be another person's whole world. My mom used to tell me this all the time, it somehow made me quite immune to what many people are suffering... then I met this guy, he has probably spoiled me too much that I began to ... (read in full...)

She is a weak woman who thinks with her heart and not her head. what is wrong with her?

Q.   hi i got myself into a tissy and i my conscious is getting the best of me. sometime ago i connected with a woman on a dating site. i didnt tell her i was bi and not divorced and occassionally sleeping with my husband and my man boss. she thinks...

A.   2 December 2012: Also, I forgot to mention, you are the one who is weak, and thinks with her heart, not her head... geez... (read in full...)

She is a weak woman who thinks with her heart and not her head. what is wrong with her?

Q.   hi i got myself into a tissy and i my conscious is getting the best of me. sometime ago i connected with a woman on a dating site. i didnt tell her i was bi and not divorced and occassionally sleeping with my husband and my man boss. she thinks...

A.   2 December 2012: OP, yes you are right in saying "everybody has the option to stay or go and if something makes you feel bad go. dont yall get it?" WE ALL GET IT!!! But the problem is, YOU ON PURPOSELY created an ILLUSION for this person to believe, in othe... (read in full...)

What would you think if your other half seeks emotional support from the opposite sex?

Q.   I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas......

A.   1 December 2012: Thanks for your thoughtful reply, CindyCares. I have thought about it for the whole day yesterday and I guess I will try to give him some more room... because I understand it is quite tiring... I mean I wouldn't want to even pay attention when I am ... (read in full...)

She is a weak woman who thinks with her heart and not her head. what is wrong with her?

Q.   hi i got myself into a tissy and i my conscious is getting the best of me. sometime ago i connected with a woman on a dating site. i didnt tell her i was bi and not divorced and occassionally sleeping with my husband and my man boss. she thinks...

A.   1 December 2012: If the woman wasn't "too naive or trusting", she wouldn't have even fallen for you OP. You are one self-centered, miserable liar, and I am pretty sure you will end up very miserable living in your own dream world if you continue to be so ... (read in full...)

What would you think if your other half seeks emotional support from the opposite sex?

Q.   I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas......

A.   30 November 2012: Thank you for all your replies! Just wanted to clarify something... I do understand that everyone wouldn't be interested in everything I enjoy, I already stated that I am not mad at him... it's just that I just hope to fulfill my needs in this per... (read in full...)

Intensity? Making the relationship last? I've never managed both.

Q.   how do you know when you're meant to be with someone? i ask this question because all my life, i've based my relationships on that intense "spark" or connection, which inevitably wears off and we wind up realizing that we have absolutely nothing in ...

A.   30 November 2012: I forgot to mention, if you care a person enough, or love a person enough to make you want the relationship to last forever, you would find yourselves LESS incompatible because your love will overcome these "obstacles", there is no perfect match, ... (read in full...)

Intensity? Making the relationship last? I've never managed both.

Q.   how do you know when you're meant to be with someone? i ask this question because all my life, i've based my relationships on that intense "spark" or connection, which inevitably wears off and we wind up realizing that we have absolutely nothing in ...

A.   30 November 2012: I know a guy friend who is exactly like you, I mean it, your words are exactly what he would say to me when asking for advice on relationships (maybe you are actually that person lol)... I guess it really depends on your own definition of "r... (read in full...)

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