Should I pay towards my girlfriend's second holiday this year despite other important financial commitments
Q. become less dramatic after some close calls in terms of our relationship that neither of us want to repeat. In short, we’re able to deal with and adapt to each other’s dominant personalities and the problems they produce between us much better. ...
A. 8 July 2013: Thank you for all of your replies. It appears that it's 5 against 1 on not paying for her holiday flight, so, by consensus, I guess that means I shouldn't pay. Before I go on, I should clarify that the following line is supposed to go at the beg... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 8 February 2011: I'm probably going to get a lot of flak for the contents of this post, but here goes...
I'm back with Latvian. Yes, after the massive fracas we had in the car two and a half weeks ago, we ended up reconciling things. The incident in the car happ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 24 January 2011: Thanks for all your replies once again, and apologies for not updating or replying myself sooner - I didn't want to frustrate the situation with you guys any more by going back and forth in my own head about what to do, and it has also been a very ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 14 January 2011: Tisha-1, I don't think I'm a victim. If a child hurts themself due to doing something stupid and their school teacher says, "You're a victim of your own stupidity," it means they were stupid by nature and it resulted in a negative effect on ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 14 January 2011: OK, thanks so much for all your replies so far.
Firstly, airwaterearthfirebender - yes, investment banking is frankly full of idiots, not in terms of intelligence, but in terms of their stereotypical cliché mindset towards life in the fast lan... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 12 January 2011: chigirl, keep arguing what? If you mean the errors of my ways, I don't. I haven't once in my replies tried to justify it.... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 12 January 2011: chigirl, the reason I don't want to hear any more ear bashing is not because it upsets me, it's because it's repetitive and not providing anything further that is constructive or useful. I already know all this, so if your aim is to make me ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 12 January 2011: To the last replier who was anonymous: I think you mistakenly think Canary Wharf is the main tower known as OCS (One Canada Square). Canary Wharf is actually a large area consisting of many many companies and lots of large as well as small office ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 12 January 2011: airwaterearthfirebender, wow - thanks for taking the time to write such a long post. That is quite an investment for someone you do not know and, I know it was also to partly benefit other members of the website and to vent some of your frustrations ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 11 January 2011: Thanks for all your replies so far. I note that they're all from female readers so far, so I suppose I fully deserve some of the flak I've had so far, but please rest assured, I am fully aware of how immoral and potentially destructive and hurtful ... (read in full...)
After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantl...
A. 19 December 2008: Thanks again guys for all your great advice and words of inspiration. I went to see her last night to get some final closure either way on the whole thing. And Crafter, you're right, she acts tough and independent, but really she is just ... (read in full...)
After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantl...
A. 17 December 2008: Thanks Crafter, just been reading your other answers to other questions, you give good advice.
I still miss her a lot, and keep going between accepting everything everyone is saying (both on here and my friends in real life who know me and the ... (read in full...)
After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantl...
A. 17 December 2008: Thanks to everyone who's helped me so far. To answer some of the questions you asked about my situation... pvtguy: I'm no longer a stripper and stopped doing that long before I met my ex-girlfriend. But she does bring up my past a lot in order to ... (read in full...)
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