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Does sex hurt first time?!

Q.   Most of my mates have had sex and they say it really hurts first time. I feel so left out when they talk about it because i havnt had it yet. Does sex hurt first time?!...

A.   10 April 2008: It hurts. Like you wouldn't believe. Don't believe me, then try this...get a carrot, put a condom on the fat rounded end of it and see what happens when you try to go up there just a few inches. Multiply that feeling by 3 and you've probably got the ... (read in full...)

I'm in my own private hell over a married man I never let into my life. Why does doing the right thing hurt so bad?

Q.   I am married. I began to have feelings for another man who is also married. He approached me for a relationship but I said nothing, not wanting to hurt him but also not wanting him to know about my feelings. I just could not bring myself to betray ...

A.   10 April 2008: I did the same thing with my first husband. But when I started to cheat with another man (he was single though) I knew it was time to end my marriage. My poor husband never saw it coming and he didn't understand why I wanted a divorce. He was/is a ... (read in full...)

I'm crazy in love and want him back!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I recently had my boyfriend break up with me, but I know it was for the better. He explained to me that we entered this relationship at the wrong time. We know we love each other and he said that even if we didnt get back together he...

A.   10 April 2008: Walk away and learn to love yourself first. You cannot connect with anyone you cannot trust and if the fault was all your, then you need to learn to trust yourself first. Love is not love when you are constantly unsure of what the other person is ... (read in full...)

How do I cope with a workaholic boyfriend?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and what first attracted me to him was the fact he is a determined person.However, I have came to realize that his determination is more like money hungery. He works 7 days a week. It seems like ...

A.   10 April 2008: In July of 2008 I'll be married 20 years. I don't know my husband anymore. I look at him, red eyed and sleepy all the time. When he's not at work, he's talking about it. We'll be somewhere and he will call into work to see what's going on. I did... (read in full...)

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