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Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

Q.   I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

A.   30 June 2015: Hey thanks everyone. Mostly you have confirmed my existing thoughts but also given me new ones to think over and maybe act on. Really appreciate you taking the time to write. Maybe i'll be back with chapter two. God bless.x... (read in full...)

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

Q.   I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

A.   30 June 2015: I have thought about that, like how often does he do it, im under no illusion, i expect its loads. I have also wondered if he just wants a housemaid (yes we live together). From what i understand over the last few years his mum did everything for ... (read in full...)

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

Q.   I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

A.   30 June 2015: Thanks Honeypie. I needed an objective opinion. call me old fashioned but I dont suppose I thought that he just doesnt want it. My first thought was that he's just gotten lazy? I still think theres an element of that. Maybe I should just come right ... (read in full...)

I am obsessed with my colleague, do you think she will be receptive to my attempts to be her friend again?

Q.   I'm not really writing this to find a solution to a problem. I don't really think there is a solution. I just needed to express something. I'm a married male father of four and I would consider myself happily married. About five years ago, there was ...

A.   29 June 2015: You know, it sounds to me like you are more in love with the thought of her. Happily married you say, but maybe things are a little complacent at home.?The reality is, if you've obsessed this long, you would very likely be disappointed with the ... (read in full...)

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