My girlfriend has asked me to tell my ex not to call again. Should I do that?
Q. My girlfriend is upset that my ex-girlfriend of over 15 years ago is in contact with me. In the past five years or so, she's called me between 5 and 10 times (when she got a cell phone). I have no feelings for this ex, beyond "hey, how's it g...
A. 9 September 2007: OK, the relationship just got very rocky. But, I still hold out hope that love will conquer all. I really appreciate this advice. It's getting through my stubborn head. It really does boil down to values - as Irish49 said. I do not want to b... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has asked me to tell my ex not to call again. Should I do that?
Q. My girlfriend is upset that my ex-girlfriend of over 15 years ago is in contact with me. In the past five years or so, she's called me between 5 and 10 times (when she got a cell phone). I have no feelings for this ex, beyond "hey, how's it g...
A. 8 September 2007: afr, thank you very much for the words, and perspective. I do have a problem knowing the right thing to say!... (read in full...)
Should I leave my alcoholic partner?
Q. Should i leave my alcoholic partner? He's ok through the week but at weekends he starts drinking as soon as he gets up and so is back in bed by lunch time. He gets up at tea time and starts drinking again then he's in bed again before our one year ...
A. 8 September 2007: Yes, please spare your daughter this bad experience. In the far future, she may blame you for her pain. Your partner needs to figure out why he's drinking so hard all weekend long, and missing out on what should be the happiest time of his life.... (read in full...)
Since I started college, I find it hard to make new friends and feel that people judge me over the clothes I wear, any advice?
Q. Hi I started college last week and it didnt go amazingly well.The other girls seem to have grouped off already.Being a shy person anyway I find it hard to make new friends and I don't know what to do. I really would like friends because at breaktim...
A. 8 September 2007: Everyone wants friends. Not everyone has the sensitivity and insight you have to find *good* friends. Being shy, you might thrive in a more structured environment, like student housing, where they put on some social events. You'll find the ... (read in full...)
I have double vision. Is this normal or might I need glasses?
Q. I have double vision when i read sometimes or look at words. Is this normal? Later it goes away. Does this mean i have eye problems and need glasses?...
A. 8 September 2007: It might be dyslexia, too.... (read in full...)
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