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*hatwomanwant35's profile: I am a confident, self-educated male in my mid 30's who grew up in Southern California, spent some years in Utah, been married & divorced, adopted my little sister when she was 3 (she is 17 now) I moved out when I was 13 and took my little brother at the age of 7 with me, I quickly became invested and infatuated with why people do what they do and why some people cannot change. I have a niche for understanding people and business. I value myself a GREAT listener, a great mentor to others both professionally and personally AND Someone whom of which is able to deliver sound advice, answers and/or suggestions that are not based on the normal realm of humanities standardized ideologies or pre-programmed way of thinking. I do so by setting aside what I feel are the TOP 4 Killers in any aspect of conversations regarding repairing and the understanding of a relationship etc... These 4 Killers are: -Emotion -Bias -Fear -Pride With my ability to remove all the relationship evils listed above, I am able to breakdown, digest & distinguish problems in relationship situations & provide non-biased, non-emotionally conceived input etc in ways that differ from that in which most people are accustom to. Yes I am a middle-aged male which would suggest that I think with my ....... but the truth is that I have dedicated the last 4 years of my life to the study of the female mind, the way they process & store information, the way they make decisions or handle scenarios in relationships on both emotional & non-emotional levels, what drives them, what makes them tick and what stimulates them physically, mentally etc.. While studying the female mind and after completing a 90 page thoughts & comments journal based on my studies, I maintained a very in-depth study of human behavior within the stress of society in general. I feel that with the knowledge gained above, the experience & knowledge I have already accumulated and retained through my life experiences as an adult male and through my deep understanding and appreciation of psychology, I am confident in my abilities to: listen, read, comprehend, digest, relate, comment & provide input on sensitive subjects or topics such as relationship advice or personal advice all without Emotion, Fear, Pride or Bias! The result? An Educated, Real & Truthful Opinion or Suggestion. ***Here is the typical problem with online forums, discussion boards, relationship blogs etc... #1 The information you receive in relation mostly to the "answers" to a subscribers question or a "comment" on someones "question" or "Post" is that those answers or comments are often times BIASED on the basis of gender or OPINIONATED on the factual basis that the person commenting is in fact lacking the ability to relate not only to the the psychological thought process of the person asking the question, but also relate to a form of non-traditional way of thinking such as the ability to relate to the other person within the original posters question to know the possible thought process that person may retain as well. (Just a little food for thought). All in All, I am a person who thoroughly enjoys the human mind, the psychology behind reason and perception and overall, just enjoys having the possibility to help others. So if you have read on this far and would like to ask my point of view on a personal situation of yours or simply that of another, I gladly welcome your decision in doing so and promise to provide only mindful and educated input. However, if you have read on this far and you have already determined that you know what type of response I am going to provide in relation to some type or series of generalized questions and feel the need or urge to comment on my profile or undermine any of my posts or comments by replying with subjective criticism with no factual basis, then I urge you to please refrain from posting your comments or asking me your question as I am deeply saddened and burdened with sorrow to know that you will not understandably repair your own personal and/or relationship problem or any trust issues you are so desperately seeking to resolve, etc...due to the simple fact that you (like you have done here) base all your decisions, answers, comments etc.. with preemptive judgement evolved around thoughts infested with bias, one-sided views & fear. Thank you and I truly hope to be of some help or guidance thus relating to some positive influence in someones life on here. Remember: "If you expect a different result or outcome by doing the same thing day-in and day-out, you my friend, are legally crazy"

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