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I'm afraid he will think I'm unattractive when he sees me naked!

Q.   Hi I need some advice ......Im a virgin...and a bit fat (13stone...5''1)...Im really self conscious about my weight...I want to have sex with my boyfriend .....but Im afraid he'll find me unattractive when he sees me naked??...what should I do...I ...

A.   17 October 2009: As long as you have a vagina and breasts, it should be just fine. Perhaps he might prefer that you be slimmer, but the bottom line is he wants to bed the girl he discusses his life with, not the shape of your abdomen.... (read in full...)

Golden Showers: I don't like it but my partner does!

Q.   Okay so my problem is my Fiance likes peeing on me and to be honest I can't stand it as the smell just makes me want to gag, I just have this thing about urine to start with so I have tried it and every time now we even get close to having sex it ...

A.   17 October 2009: We did this very drunk years ago. I cannot imagine anyone wanting to do this. This said, my wife couldn't imagine hopw any woman could enjoy fellatio. A friend of hers thought we were outright perverts because we do anal three or four times every ... (read in full...)

My wife won't give me a blowjob. She won't even talk about it!

Q.   I am in a perfect relationship in every way except for one thing. I adore oral sex - nothing else quite does it for me - but I haven't had a complete blowjob for 3 years. When I first met my wife, she did it every time - she even swallowed. But afte...

A.   16 October 2009: Blow jobs. It is practically all we fight about. She don't like it, so she don't do it. It doesn't matter how I feel. I have mixed feelings. My feeling is that she ought to want to do it. If I were worthy she would...... I think she loves me, but ... (read in full...)

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