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Help!! Who do I choose? The one who makes me his world or the one who gives me goosebumps?

Q.   I have to choose between two men. #1 is kind, loving, considerate, caring, sweet, faithful, would do anything for me and makes me the centre of his universe. BUT he is boring, predictable there is no chemistry or spark between us and the sex is d...

A.   21 June 2013: Neither one. Find some one new treats you well consistently and you feel attracted to. The excitement of the 2nd man will fizzle in time. Physical chemistry no matter how great is not a good reason by itself to make decisions about the man. ... (read in full...)

How can someone say 'no communication' and then have the audacity to come and take a phone back that you lent them in the first place?

Q.   my ex boyfriend broke up with me 4mths ago, we didn't talk for a month, then he began talking back to me. we had arguments till he felt we shouldn't communicate, I will say fine and respect what he said, then he come and try talk again when I don't ...

A.   21 June 2013: First off, you are not a victim of this man. Meaning you did not have to agree to any contact that he wanted to have with you. You could've said no to any further communications at any time. At this point, I would forget about the phone. If you t... (read in full...)

I've been seeing a man who was a friend before we began dating and I'm devastated that he just ended it after 7 weeks of dating!

Q.   Hi people. Just need some straight forward advice,ill give you some background,I am a single mother out of a messy relationship about 2 years ago. Ive come to the time now,where I feel I can move on. Ive been seeing a man who was my friend before we ...

A.   21 June 2013: Your mistake was having sex *before* knowing what it meant to him. In the future you need to be clear with the man under what conditions you will have sex with him. Sex caused you to feel emotionally attached and you were living in a somewhat... (read in full...)

Should I give this jerk who dumped me a piece of my mind or not give him the satisfaction?

Q.   I would love your opinion about this. I was dumped today by a low life, cheating prick. He came to my house to tell me. I am really upset by not only the fact he did it but by how he did it and how unfeeling and cold he was about it. He came t...

A.   21 June 2013: What I think is very important that you maintain your dignity. If you were to send him a message to tell him how much he hurt you it would only make you look bad, pitiful. Rather than worry about him "getting away" with hurting you focus on your ... (read in full...)

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