Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 28 January 2009: Point taken. So, is this one of those things like "let it go, if it is love it will return to you" type things? Because I have a lot more riding on this than I did with my high school crush. Leaving it to chance and hoping that everything goes fine ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 28 January 2009: Anonymous, I am already on it. I have made reservations at a resort for the weekend and will plan something for the next two years at least. My wife was actually excited when I told her that I had made the plans. I'll make it a point to have ... (read in full...)
Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?
Q. Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ...
A. 27 January 2009: Undoubtedly, yes. In fact everyone I know that has had a lasting, truly loving relationships has never referenced outrageous duration as a synonym for true love.... (read in full...)
She says nothing happened but I still doubt her...
Q. I started dating a person in August of last year. We had a wonderful time together. However, she had an ex that she still loved. By Christmas, I was head over heals. Then he came back in town and poof, they were together. Now that he has gone ...
A. 27 January 2009: You did the right thing telling her not to contact you. Not that she is lying but because you obviously desire the relationship to be on a level that she is not willing to consent to. Believe me; the trust thing doesn't get better with the age of ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 27 January 2009: Thank you Eve. I think you are right in this approach. I did just talk to her after I posted. I asked her to repeat to me what she though they would do if they know I was getting in the way of her and their fun. She did and I asked her if she really ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 27 January 2009: Eve, I understand what your saying but she has called my bluff again. It is she that has made the stand. As for talking to the members of this group, If they knew how upset I was about it, they would begin to plot against me. This is not paranoia. ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 27 January 2009: We talked about it some more today. She wants me to let it go. I do have a low self esteem and I won't leave. I know that this group is aware, as I am, that all they require is enough drink and my absence to have her doing as they please. I'm not ... (read in full...)
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