Anxious about the future. What help should I seek to overcome these obstacles that exist in my life?
Q. Flunked out of college twice and now I'm 25 expecting to graduate next year after 7 years of schooling. I have lost all hope in my future because of my failure and an extremely competitive job market. I have no idea what I am struggling for and ...
A. 6 September 2016: Thanks for answering. I've thought of entrepreneurship but I don't have a creative bone in my body also I am a black African there's no chance of me being hired to teach English abroad. I'm not concerned about compensation/salary. My no.1 worry is ... (read in full...)
After years of pornography I have no desire to date
Q. I was addicted to porn and masturbation for years. I decided to stop doing engaging my habits and I am happy that I have succeeded. The problem is that I have no interest in girls or relationships anymore. Before I was too afraid to try and date, ...
A. 13 June 2013: I used to spend my time looking at porn but now I am pursuing other interests like reading, creative writing, learning computer programing and Japanese, as well as working out. From my point of view porn kept me interested in women. I wanted to ... (read in full...)
After years of pornography I have no desire to date
Q. I was addicted to porn and masturbation for years. I decided to stop doing engaging my habits and I am happy that I have succeeded. The problem is that I have no interest in girls or relationships anymore. Before I was too afraid to try and date, ...
A. 11 June 2013: I was masturbating at least 4 times a day and spending the whole day in front of the computer watching porn. I know for a fact that I have low self esteem and confidence and I think it's easier for me to give up on girls rather than work on myself
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Never had a girlfriend and don't know how to make a move
Q. I don't know how to make a move on a girl. I was alone with a girl who might like me but I didn't know what to do and ran out of things to say and then there was a long spate of terrible awkward silence. The problem is that I have never had a...
A. 22 March 2013: Thank you for the replies. My problem is that I don't know how to MAC on girls. I can talk and even flirt just fine but if I have to talk with the intention to get their number or go out with them I choke. And the girl I was with last night liked ... (read in full...)
How can I block out what my parents said and still lead a happy life?
Q. I asked a question sometime ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-flunked-out-of-college-and-am.html) I was feeling very hopeful and confident about my future after reading the responses. I told my parents and they did not take the news we...
A. 14 January 2013: I though i should add that they don't pay for my college education. It is paid for by the government and i will be re-sponsored by them upon my readmission ... (read in full...)
Should I just stay single for life? Or am I getting way too anxious about how I will be when I finally find myself in a relationship?
Q. I don't think I am ready for a relationship right now. However, I think that when I feel I am ready it will be too late to start learning and no one will be patient enough to teach me unless they are trying to use me. When the time comes should I ...
A. 20 August 2012: I think I am an active listener and trustworthy because my friends come to me for advice or just to talk when they are having problems and I don't share anything personal which they tell me.
I just think that the experience gap between myself and ... (read in full...)
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