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I'm married to a man, but have fallen in love with a woman

Q.   I a woman married to a man and I have recently found a woman that I am falling in love with. I love my husband and father of my kids. We have had many ups and downs over the last decade, but right now things are going well. The problem I have is ...

A.   3 February 2011: My wife and I are currently going through the same dilemma (question: "Am I crazy for staying?"). To be honest, I thought that you were my wife asking this question. All I can say is be open and honest with your husband. For me it has been painful ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for staying?

Q.   My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

A.   3 February 2011: Hi Jonas, thank you once again. After much discussion I have agreed for us to remain together. Without the comments on this webiste, I would be a quivering mess huddled in the corner of the room. In response to your comments, she was extremel... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for staying?

Q.   My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

A.   2 February 2011: Thanks Jonas, I like your take on things...for me it brings the least heartache. Despite this, in recent days I have been leaning towards leaving her; but for what? She has done nothing wrong. All she has done is come to me and told me how she is ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for staying?

Q.   My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

A.   1 February 2011: Thanks Chocs, I agree with you also and like I have said previously, I only want her to be happy. For me, she is not living to her full potential. If it was just lesbian sex then I would let her go off and have her fling but she says that she is in ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for staying?

Q.   My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

A.   31 January 2011: Thanks BW, it has crossed my mind, but she is adamant that she loves me and is still in love with me...but her sexual preference will always be in the back of my mind. I just want her to be happy and she believes that that is with me. My issue is ... (read in full...)

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