We both said, "I love you". Now I am confused.
Q. hi, i am 15 years old and me and this boy we're almost there..i mean we were very close to being boyfriend and girlfriend but we only knew each other for 3 months.One day he told me that he loved me and i asked him how could you love someone that ...
A. 6 January 2008: He is in too much of a hurry. He is so eager for validation that he won't give you enough time to settle in.
It seems to me that a relationship should start as "just friends." Let "love" develop gradually. ... (read in full...)
What if a guy really IS decent?
Q. I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the...
A. 3 January 2008: Oh, that's what you meant. I was thinking along different lines. But, yes, her sister would be practical-minded about boys.... (read in full...)
What if a guy really IS decent?
Q. I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the...
A. 3 January 2008: Actually, her younger sister is blind, so she is definitely not "pragmatic."... (read in full...)
What if a guy really IS decent?
Q. I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the...
A. 2 January 2008: I checked the link. In my story, the good guy does not fit anything on the list.
1) He loves children, and wants them someday. (In fact, the book will end with him as a husband and father.)
2) He is a "cat person."
3) He refuse... (read in full...)
What if a guy really IS decent?
Q. I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the...
A. 2 January 2008: I checked the link. In my story, the good guy does not fit anything on the list.
1) He loves children, and wants them someday. (In fact, the book will end with him as a husband and father.)
2) He is a "cat person."
3) He refuse... (read in full...)
What if a guy really IS decent?
Q. I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the...
A. 2 January 2008: The point is this.
According to that book about "spotting bad guys," a manipulator will pretend to be "nice." But, once he gets the girl, he becomes abusive.
My question was, What if a guy really is nice, and intends to stay that way... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with my weight?
Q. I'm a 13 year old young woman with a lot of issues about the way I looke. I look pretty tiny. I am 5'0.5' tall and I weigh like 125 pounds. Do you think there is something wrong with my weight?...
A. 2 January 2008: Relax. You are 13, so you still have some growing to do.
Go get one of those heavy-duty rubber bands. Notice how "fat" it looks? But, if you stretch it just a bit, it gets thin!
Don't worry about it. You are not "fat." ... (read in full...)
I got rid of my abusive boyfriend and I have my life back. Would it work if we visited sometimes?
Q. I finally kicked him out. He was a very obsessive/possessive man. He verbally abused me and manipulated me. We had been together for 3 years, and lived together for 10 months. I am glad I have my life back, but I cannot help to feel sad and miss ...
A. 1 January 2008: It is possible that, at heart, you pity him. This is perfectly normal, just as it would be if you cradled a sick baby.
But! Your boyfriend knows this instinctively! So do not allow your pity to be mistaken for romantic infatuation. Remember... (read in full...)
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