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Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?

Q.   My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were...

A.   26 March 2009: The deed is done, and you can't go back. I'd ask her point blank "Are you my girlfriend now?". Nothing's better than falling in love with your best friend. But if just one of you feels it alot more than the other, love sucks. If she or you don'... (read in full...)

Could I ask my ex if I can stay at his apartment, he has a new girlfriend!

Q.   I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want t...

A.   26 March 2009: I agree with Jessica and Angela -- ask him and make sure the girlfriend knows. If he's with the girlfriend, there's no harm. You don't even have to see them. But it might be fun to see them both. If you have no designs on him, then don't give the ... (read in full...)

Serious wife issues

Q.   My wife had a male best friend prior to our marriage. While dating, she had me meet her at her work in order to actually meet him. As an introduction, she stated, "I'd like you to meet AA, he's my life." This upset me some, as we were planning on ...

A.   26 March 2009: I can't believe you married her after she said another man was her life! To say that was hurtful and a test to see what she could get away with. I think the thing to know about AA is if they ever were intimate. If they never did, then he is truly... (read in full...)

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