Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?
Q. I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...
A. 26 May 2017: Thank you so much Denizen for your words of wisdom.
The phrase "Swap the humiliation for disappointment in him" is a very good thing to rather dwell on than the former! Very helpful indeed.
And, yes, I am a little naive I think.. or maybe a lot!... (read in full...)
Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?
Q. I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...
A. 26 May 2017: Thank you, again, to everyone who has replied. They all have helped and added another perspective.
I definitely have a problem in giving too much of my heart away to people who don't deserve it or have earned it.
It hurts now but would hurt m... (read in full...)
Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?
Q. I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...
A. 26 May 2017: In reply to the answer regarding meeting real people and the risk of being catfished. Every guy I have met was real. I actually do check that quite thoroughly and have talked to their friends etc so they are real. One can see quite quickly if one is ... (read in full...)
Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?
Q. I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...
A. 25 May 2017: Thank you WiseOwlE for your lengthy and informative reply. Hard reading at times but I do agree that one would have to meet in person to continue any form of real relationship. The only thing is that everything we 'shared' was very much a two-side... (read in full...)
Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?
Q. I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...
A. 25 May 2017: Thank you for your insights. I agree I get too invested but that's who I am even in person. I am very open in communicating how I feel and would only do so if I feel safe to do so. I was merely mirroring and giving what he gave. That's why the ... (read in full...)
This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?
Q. Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...
A. 23 July 2015: Thank you to you all, especially Abella and Rebecca c for your words of encouragement. As I have no where to turn in this matter, I have been carrying a burden alone. It is very sad to see 'another side' of someone you always saw as kind and caring. ... (read in full...)
This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?
Q. Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...
A. 20 July 2015: So, I was able to final cut the string. After another week of being intermittently loved and ignored depending on what was happening in his life I unfriended and unfollowed.
It was too painful to keep watching his openly flirting with all thes... (read in full...)
This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?
Q. Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...
A. 15 July 2015: Thank you for the answers thusfar. Any feedback is helpful at this point. I need an anchor and it definitely is not him. We had talked about meeting and wished for it many times but due to circumstances on both sides it was only to happen in a few ... (read in full...)
This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?
Q. Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...
A. 15 July 2015: p.s. I fully agree about the social media thing being detrimental to relationships across the board. We met on there but weren't communicating on their solely. Various other means including phone calls every day... Skyping.. etc.. Does that not ... (read in full...)
This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?
Q. Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...
A. 15 July 2015: Shouldn't the guy not call me loving names etc? Babe, my love, my heart etc? And to be talked to every day of my life.. morning, noon, night... sharing every part of our lives? We were planning on meeting in the next few months. We are from the same ... (read in full...)
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