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Emotionally isolated and sexually frustrated

Q.   I have an embarrassing problem, well maybe two. I'm a guy in my mid 20s and I can't seem to cum unless I am in love with the person I am sleeping with. This wouldn't be a problem but I have not been in love in almost 18 months and since my las...

A.   27 January 2009: Then go out to get a hooker, you can have them be nice to you but you dont have to get to know them... (read in full...)

We can't be an item, it'll ruin the band!

Q.   Hi I play in a band and have been involved in music for many years; it is my life and all my energy goes into it. Recently, another bandmate (female) and I (male) have developed feelings for each other; through hanging out, sharing problems...

A.   27 January 2009: I think you should do it. if you two break up you will just be involved bandwise. But you sound like the two of you will last a while, maybe longer then your band? just be gentle with her... (read in full...)

Lovemaking is painful for my girlfriend

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 or 5 months now, we've probably had intercourse 15 - 20 times. She told me today that every time we've done it, she feels pain - she still wants to do it, because sometimes it feels good or she ...

A.   27 January 2009: I was like that. if she has never had sex before you its just virgintitis. :P me and my boyfriend were very cautious at first. you want to take a postition when your sitting up and she is sittijng on top of you, stretches her a bit more. but first ... (read in full...)

He wasn't able to perform, is that normal?

Q.   Hey Ive been seeing this guy for a few weekes now, last weekend he invited me over to his place to cook me dinner..and invited me to stay the night..which i happily accepted..lol Anyway so we hop into bed and talked for a while and then he told me ...

A.   27 January 2009: Ive been with my bf for 8 months and hes had nights like that. i dont mind them. if he cant then im happy to just kiss him and cuddle him and have him gentle with me. tell your person to stop worrying and that your happy to just spend a night in his ... (read in full...)

I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common.

Q.   I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common. I hate the music he listens to, the books he reads.(all that stuff) and to top it off his friends dont like me. What do I do?...

A.   27 January 2009: Me and my bf are so different. for instance, he hates emos and i can be one. sometimes i dress all emo like and stuff. a lot of his frie matternds didnt like me at first but they got over it. if you have so many differences then you can have fun ... (read in full...)

He says suggestive things..does he like me?

Q.   hi i am confused as to whether a guy likes me or not. we know each other though a friend but suddenly recently he has started talking to me alot more and says suggestive things that make me think he likes me but im not sure?? he has said thi...

A.   27 January 2009: Next time he says something about taking you out say "when and where?" be sexy about it. he sounds like a nice guy. dont change thought. he likes you as you. dont try and be too sexy. just be cheeky and flirty when you say it, good luck... (read in full...)

Date wants to see a scary movie and I don't like them!

Q.   i asked out this guy to the movies and he said yes.but he whats to see a scary movie and i dont like scary movies (i still have nightmares after seeing the ring 5 years ago)but i dont what to tell him that.like ill go see it but i really dont what ...

A.   27 January 2009: I hate scary movies. but when if first went out with the guy im still seeing we saw a horrific movie that scared the crap out of me. You know what I did? n I curled up under his arm and he thought i was ute. i still do things that make him go ... (read in full...)

I hate condoms, will mini pill protect me?

Q.   ok so i have been with this amazing boy an we have started to have sex .. it has been both of our first time. i hate using condoms and we never use them and i think it feels way better wit out them. i am on the mini pill for period pains and spots ...

A.   27 January 2009: Forget the pill, get implanon. its the same but you get it inserted and dont have to worry about missing the pill and last for three years, its helps cycle and your acne aswell. go to your doctor but you have to talk to your mum first. i have it and ... (read in full...)

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