Should I break up with my live-in girlfriend?
Q. I am in a long term relationship and my gf isnt interested in sex. I've always had a higher sex drive than her but she only wants sex when it is her cycle for a kid. I want a kid but college is starting to get stressful and I dont think I want to ...
A. 5 April 2018: She may need to see a sex therapist to determine the cause of her low sex drive. If it can't be fixed, you guys are just not compatible and you aren't going to be happy long term. I was in a LTR with very infrequent sex for many years (3 years) and ... (read in full...)
He lied about an ex. Should I end things?
Q. Last night I caught my bf of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told me he had a gf in the summer of ...
A. 4 April 2018: The lying is definitely not a good sign, but it's very common especially in people who don't have much experience with relationships. I have both lied and been lied to many times in relationships. It's always enormously damaging and can set any ... (read in full...)
How can I fix the relationship I have with my mother?
Q. It's rare me and my mother ever have an emotional, bonding conversation; I try and start a conversation with her but she just says "Yeah" or "Mhmm" or something to cut the conversation short. The only time we actually have a conversation is when ...
A. 3 April 2018: Unless she is willing to go to therapy herself (and kudos to you for going), there isn't much you can do except accept that this is the way your mother is and she will probably never change. You're at an age where you still feel partly emotionally ... (read in full...)
I suspect my daughter in law is having sex with my boyfriend
Q. I suspect my daughter in law who is married for 11 yrs to my son on having an affair with my boyfriend of 10 years. I believe this has been going on for sometime now. I have no hard proof,just what I see with my own eyes. My gut instant is so sure, ...
A. 3 April 2018: Relationships don't function well when one or both partners escalate their suspicions because it's a vicious cycle: you're suspicious, you accuse him, he feels angry and upset that you don't trust him, he will be dissatisfied in the relationship ... (read in full...)
How can I get my dear bunny girlfriend back?
Q. Six weeks ago, I met a beautiful young woman online who I ended up falling head over heels in love with. She was affectionate, caring, beautiful, we got on fantastically, the sex was amazing, and she seemed to be into me just as much as I was into ...
A. 7 November 2013: I just wanted to say thank you so much for all the answers, I have read them all and thought about them in detail, and you have all really helped me get a handle on the situation and what I can do about it. You are right she also has baggage and ... (read in full...)
Girls' night out - girlfriend comes home drunk at 4am
Q. My girlfriend went to a nightclub for a girls' night out last night, came back at 4am and spent the first hour of today throwing up. How worried should I be? The poster for the event she went to depicts a young lady sitting down in a chair, with...
A. 21 November 2011: I suppose the thing is that I do have a few reasons not to trust her at this point. About a year ago I found out that she had been chatting continuously with her ex-boyfriend behind my back (actually chatting simultaneously with him and me on IM ... (read in full...)
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