I always "freeze" when having to take the conclusive steps to end my marriage, because of the abuses. What to do about the indecisiveness?
Q. I really need help to make a very big decision - that is to leave my husband. I am 35 - no children. What I guess I am asking is why I have deliberated over it for so long when the evidence that we are not right for each other is so obvious. I ha...
A. 12 January 2008: Awww hun, i'm sorry. When i got married i thought i would be for life, shame it wasn't. I was like you, always wanted what he wanted but never thought of myself. I wish i could say get rid of him, but that will only make you feel worse, unless that ... (read in full...)
I found photos of her naked ex in our room!
Q. I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...
A. 1 December 2007: Just throw them!!! She married you not him. They are only pictures. Get rid and treat her to that special meal, I'm sure she'll love you all the more.... (read in full...)
She spent the evening with a work-colleague the night before she came home but swears nothing sexual happened. Do I trust her less for this?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years. This morning I found out that she spent the evening with a bloke from work the night before then came home to me. She swears she didn't have sex with him and that they just talked. I don't know ...
A. 30 November 2007: Have you sat down and talked to her about how you feel and your feelings? I mean in a civil conversation and not a shouting match! Have you asked her why she did this? If she had phoned and explained what was happening would it made a difference? ... (read in full...)
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