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My girlfriend cheated on me--what do I do now?

Q.   My girlfriend cheated on me--we have been together 5 yrs, lived together for 3 yrs and now living apart until we find a house. She went away working and came back and confessed that she slept with someone...it was a one off she said. What do I do?...

A.   25 June 2007: It happened to me, stay with her, give her another chance. Atleast she owned up to it, that shows in itself she loves you, the guilt was eating her up. Take some time apart, reflect and get together, take things slow. Take care mate!... (read in full...)

How do I win a girl's heart?

Q.   How do I get rid of my spots and what do I need to get to a girl's heart? I have no success with woman and I feel this site is my only hope. ...

A.   25 June 2007: I went through the exact same thing. See your doctor, he/she should prescribe you to some pills and lotion. Its worked wonders for me, of course i get the odd one but nothing in comparisson to what it used to be. Once they start fading youl find ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I may have gotten an STD..and I'm worried about going to a clinic. Help?

Q.   i had unprotected sex a lil while back and im scared iv caught somthing and im scared to go 2 a clinic plz help ...

A.   21 December 2006: If i was you to either stop your worrying or convince yourself you need to seek medical advice, check your symptoms and go on www.sexualhealth.me.uk and see if that helps. Hope all goes well.... (read in full...)

After he sent me these obscene messages..I get the feeling he doesn't like me anymore. Any advice?

Q.   This is what my bf wrote on a text message after we got into an arguement. I was just asking him to stay on the phone with me longer because I felt lonely and he got frustrated and hung up on my face. Here is what he wrote on his text message "You ...

A.   20 December 2006: To me it sounds as tho this guy really needs to relax. All that abuse over a lil thing like that? That really must of hurt...i think what you need to do is meet with him and talk, not argue. i think you should apoligise for the whole 3 guy thing and ... (read in full...)

I Checked up on her conversations with this other guy, Im now worried thats she gonna leave me!

Q.   What Should I Do? Iv been with my girlfriend now for a year and a month, i love her to bits - she is amazin in everyway. However one or two problems have risen and in iv done some things im not proud of. To start with im 21 and shes 17, we ra...

A.   20 December 2006: Thanks very much for your comments. I felt better after getting all that off my chest as i havnt dialoged with anyone about that (that could be adding to the problem). We went out tonight, i took her to a very nice restuarant and we went ice ... (read in full...)

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