We broke up because she is a go-getter and I wasnt figuring my career out quick enough...but now I want her back, how do I show her things will be different this time?
Q. I think the main reason was my wavering mind about my career, and the pace at which I was going in trying to figure things out - more slowly than her. She's a real go getter, and she really wanted me to match her pace, which I wanted to as well, but ...
A. 28 March 2012: Thank you for your answers - I try and re visit them every once in a while. I'ts been about 3 and a half months, and I'm doing a little better. Still have crying fits every now and then. I also wonder if I should be taking the approach by Blaise ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no ambitions for his career! Should I be concerned? Is there any hope for a future with him?
Q. I've only been with him for 2 months and have only known him for about 4 months. We work together. I just started. He's been with the company for 3 years. He's 28, about to be 29 in a matter of weeks. He comes from a very good family--I don't mean ...
A. 11 January 2012: catcher00..Have a similar situation, but from the other side - I'm the guy who couldn't find his focus till now. Here's the post:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-broke-up-because-she-is-a-go56.html
Just wanted to know your thoughts... (read in full...)
We broke up because she is a go-getter and I wasnt figuring my career out quick enough...but now I want her back, how do I show her things will be different this time?
Q. I think the main reason was my wavering mind about my career, and the pace at which I was going in trying to figure things out - more slowly than her. She's a real go getter, and she really wanted me to match her pace, which I wanted to as well, but ...
A. 23 December 2011: SillyB: Thanks for the kind words! I realize I made it sound like she is looking for a guy who makes a lot, but during the summer she said she was not looking for me to make a million bucks, but as the anonymous reader said - someone who has a plan ... (read in full...)
We broke up because she is a go-getter and I wasnt figuring my career out quick enough...but now I want her back, how do I show her things will be different this time?
Q. I think the main reason was my wavering mind about my career, and the pace at which I was going in trying to figure things out - more slowly than her. She's a real go getter, and she really wanted me to match her pace, which I wanted to as well, but ...
A. 23 December 2011: To the last commenter - Thank you for your insight. I understand, and it sounds very much like her. I want to do this for me, because I know that no matter what happens with other people, I will still have my career and my life, my successes. I ... (read in full...)
We broke up because she is a go-getter and I wasnt figuring my career out quick enough...but now I want her back, how do I show her things will be different this time?
Q. I think the main reason was my wavering mind about my career, and the pace at which I was going in trying to figure things out - more slowly than her. She's a real go getter, and she really wanted me to match her pace, which I wanted to as well, but ...
A. 22 December 2011: I appreciate the responses so far. I know I made it sound like she was never really interested, but she was. A lot. During the time before May when I broke it off, we would keep having conversations about it at night, and she would cry and say if it ... (read in full...)
He's a great boyfriend but he has no motivation!
Q. I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been dating almost two years. We laugh, have great chemistry, share some common interests and get along great with eachother's friends and family. The problem is that he has very little ...
A. 8 December 2011: Hello, So, I'm writing from a guy's point of view, but more for a need for perspective than anything else. So you see, I was dating a girl with a pretty similar personality. Motivated by work, has a high paying job and though open minded, comes fr... (read in full...)
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