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Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   1 July 2010: I used to think like that, but something really changed my opinion. I think it is very sad so many of us feel this way. I believe it is a biological instinct to protect the material inheritance of our own children. Unfortunately as many have said... (read in full...)

All bets are off now here in suburbia. His porn habit has me contemplating an affair, as I feel worthless and failed as a woman.

Q.   We are a middle class family, living in suburbia. My husband of 5 years watches porn Friday evenings from midnight to about 2-3am. Didnt do it in the beginning but now he says he needs it. From 5pm I see him getting ready for it. Comes home with ...

A.   15 August 2008: I don't think the fact your husband watches porn has anything to do with you, well, perhaps one small thing, but i caught my boyfriend watching porn and as i am young fit and attractive and very sexual, sorry but its contextual, i know that it ... (read in full...)

My fiancee is making me sick with anxiety!

Q.   I feel like i want to die, i can't sleep, i can't eat. I regret my abortion now because i only did because i loved my boyfriend and he wasn't ready to be a dad, but it wanted it so much. Now he says he wants time apart, or to stop living together, ...

A.   15 August 2008: sorry, i should say, he said in future he'd want kids with a woman who was well...from the description some kind of saint. And he said he'd feel more relaxed with another woman now, because he's never been with anyone but me. ... (read in full...)

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