I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its ...
A. 3 April 2018: This is a really tricky one.
From his point of view, when you got together, he was (presumably) happy with the amount of sex and it's just dropped off. You were meeting each other's needs, and now you've stopped meeting his. He wants the relation... (read in full...)
His neediness bothers me. Should I feel guilty for blocking him?
Q. Okay so I've only known this guy for 2 months only, he is at my university. He seemed nice at first and we hang out together, but then he started to creep me out with his neediness and him being too clingy. I was nice with him and i gave him hints ...
A. 3 April 2018: No one on Earth, absolutely no one, has a right to your time, your attention, your availability.
If you've been polite but boundaried, if he's been pushing you further than makes you comfortable, then you're entirely justified in stopping... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ridiculed me saying that I have small boobs and a big tummy!
Q. Dear cubid, The other day my bf of 2 years and i were video chating and i was wearing a tank top without a bra so he made a comment saying " ur boobs need serious help why doesn't the fat from ur stomach go up to ur boobs , just rotate the fat" ...
A. 3 April 2018: It seems to me he either didn't know that would be a hurtful thing to say, or he didn't care.
If he didn't know, I'd be worried about why he isn't better aware of your specific insecurities after two years. It's not a problem that you have bit... (read in full...)
What is the best way to end my obsession with my co-worker?
Q. Hello, I am a happily a married woman with a 4yr old daughter and an awesome husband. With that said I want nothing more than to have crazy (50 shades of grey) sex with my coworker who is also married with 3 kids and one on the way. It started ...
A. 9 March 2018: I've been in relationships where I've become infatuated with someone else, and in every single case there was a common thread: the new object of my attention was offering (or I thought they might offer) something my partner wasn't. I used to be d... (read in full...)
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