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Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

Q.   Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

A.   11 March 2017: aunt_honesty, I think you've nailed it there: I have become insecure in this relationship. Something I've never been before. That's probably why I'm finding it hard to just walk away. I know I'll be happier without her in the long term, maybe I'll ... (read in full...)

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

Q.   Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

A.   25 February 2017: Anonymous, your advice is harsh but fair. And I know deep down that she'll cheat again. She's so riddled with "issues" (including Impulse Control Disorder) that she won't be able to help herself. It's very sad. ... (read in full...)

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

Q.   I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

A.   25 February 2017: OP, your wife sounds like my fiancée. My advice to you is similar to the other replies here: trust your gut. If you know/feel deep down that she's not 100% committed... you know what to do. Good luck, either way. ... (read in full...)

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

Q.   Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

A.   24 February 2017: Thanks for the replies, everyone. Just to clarify, the stuff that happened with this other couple WAS physical - and it continued after we were together. For how long, I guess I'll never know. Her insecurities and depression come from an unhealthy ... (read in full...)

Should I follow my instincts and just walk away before it's too late, or tell my G/f up front that her lack of interest/effort is becoming a cause for concern?

Q.   Hello all. Just wondering what people's thoughts were on this situation: My g/f and I have been together for just over a year. We live about 25miles apart, and we usually see each other once or twice a week and every other weekend. The...

A.   26 November 2014: Thanks for the replies. Honeypie, it's a valid point. But yes, I did make an effort for our anniversary. I'd booked day/night away together (which she cancelled because she wasn't feeling well), and bought her a silver pendant and a 'romanti... (read in full...)

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