Can you please suggest some advice on productive and positive things I can do to deal with how I'm feeling about this betrayal?
Q. I posted a few months ago when I found out that the girl I'd spent three years talking to on the phone had sent me photos of someone who wasn't her. In the end, I kept digging, and found that things went a lot deeper. I ended things, but things w...
A. 5 March 2013: Thank you everyone for some fantastic advice - and for being so supportive and non-judgemental at a time I've expected a lot of people to be fairly unsympathetic. I think my biggest knock has been to my confidence - I feel like I don't really kno... (read in full...)
LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?
Q. I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...
A. 10 December 2012: I'm on her Facebook page, so have seen photos from holidays, parties and so on, but one of the photos she'd initially sent did show a face and this person looked the same as the photos on Facebook, but it turned out it wasn't her. Who knows - maybe ... (read in full...)
LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?
Q. I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...
A. 10 December 2012: So at first she claimed not to know anything about it, and said that it was such a long time ago (it was at the start of our relationship) she couldn't remember what she had or hadn't done. I reminded her that she'd even given me a backstory to the ... (read in full...)
LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?
Q. I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...
A. 9 December 2012: I should be talking to her in a couple of hours. I'm just going to put the facts to her and see how she responds. I suppose the most important thing about this is that I'm not angry. I know I have every right to be, but I don't want this to tur... (read in full...)
LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?
Q. I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...
A. 9 December 2012: Thank you for the comments so far. I really appreciate them. She's e-mailed me a little while ago and I've told her I need to talk about something. She's said that she doesn't feel good about a lot of things, and that she's in a dark place, but ... (read in full...)
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