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Can I save this situation and get my man?

Q.   This guy (guy x) recently caught my eye at a party, though I didn't feel too strongly about him. The day after the party I got asked on a date by one of guy x's friends, who I also know. I accepted the date, because the friend is a nice guy and I ...

A.   4 May 2008: It's guy code sadly. Most of them won't date a girl that their friends have dated. If he'll stick to that code, then I don't see a future with guy x. This is the case for many men, so by dating his friend you probably won't get a date with him. Guy ... (read in full...)

Have decided I would like to have a child-but partner may decide the opposite! Any advice?

Q.   I am 35, on the fast slide to 36 and I have decided I would like to have a child. Unfortunately, I am experiencing that common problem of a partner (39) who has decided the opposite. We have a strong, loving relationship. We both share strong e...

A.   4 May 2008: He's not going to change his mind. You aren't going to change your mind. If you force him to, he'll resent you all his life. If you never get a child, you'll resent him all his life. This is a relationship buster and is not a negotiable thing. Give ... (read in full...)

Me or her? Why can't he choose or is he just playing with me?

Q.   I broke off twice with this guy, G because of religious reasons, him being a Christian and I not. We then held on to each other in an ambiguous relationship (I had two boyfriends after him but he was always there for me and I kept turning to him) ...

A.   4 May 2008: Stop letting him use you perhaps. He knows you have feelings for him while he has a stable gal, so he leads you along making you think he'll leave her and gets some "couple stuff" on the side. You have to respect yourself enough to know that you ... (read in full...)

The only lad I've ever loved has confessed he doesn't have feelings for me, but something still doesn't seem right?

Q.   Right, ok i need help and quick!! I've never been one to want a bf, liked being single etc until i met this lad in my class now for the past 5 months its gone from a patheic crush to a lot more. I always thought he liked me an so did a friend of ...

A.   4 May 2008: God brings me right back to school days. First of all, from now on don't send your mate to tell someone that you like them. It makes it appear as you don't have enough confidence to ask them out yourself and makes them think negatively of yo... (read in full...)

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