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How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?

Q.   For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened ...

A.   26 December 2009: i have had a similar situation... just not as bad or intense, keep talking to your therapist and get him or her to help you and you can have the person who has done all the bad things to you taken away. wouldnt you feel much safer to know that they ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

Q.   I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

A.   26 December 2009: oh p.s by the way, it is natural for him to be afraid before making a divorce final, i mean he does have a son with his soon to be ex, but that takes time and waiting patiently, although hard will be good for him and you because then he may feel ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

Q.   I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

A.   26 December 2009:  your ex that cheeted on you, shows that he cant not commit and isn't truly in it for you... as hard as that is and for me to say,and also having a child, would you be able to trust that he will be there for you and the child in the future? but if ... (read in full...)

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