My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a ...
A. 1 July 2014: Thanks for your followups. I don't think you need to worry. You care about her a lot so I don't think a change in her looks is going to make you forget what a great person she is. Besides, people are their own worst critics. It could be she is ... (read in full...)
Why do people do people act like they are in love so easily ? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!
Q. So my friend and I just got done texting and he has known this girl for like four days and is already saying that she is his dream girl. I've been telling him that he is crazy and that he falls in love way to easy. Why do people do that? How do I te...
A. 1 July 2014: A lot of people mistake infatuation for love. This is what your friend is doing. He has created a fantasy in his head of what being involved with her will be like, based on what he's learned about her in 4 days time. He doesn't see her as human ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?
Q. Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in ...
A. 30 June 2014: He had a lot of fun on your night together. He messages you to keep the door open for more fun. He doesn't feel bothered to respond to your messages because he really isn't interested in conversation. If you are looking for something serious with ... (read in full...)
Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay
Q. We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with ...
A. 30 June 2014: Yes, I would keep your distance. If she turned you down twice, I doubt she changed her mind now. She likes that you desire her, it makes her feel good. Don't misconstrue it as interest. She is only interested in friendship. ... (read in full...)
What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?
Q. At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. ...
A. 30 June 2014: This is not uncommon. Men will be attracted to a lot of different women in their lives, sometimes at the same time. Could it be you are mistaking his flirting as being interested in these women? Some people are natural flirts, and it doesn't mean ... (read in full...)
My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a ...
A. 30 June 2014: There is one thing I don't understand here. If you are no longer with her, and there is no plan of getting back together, why are you concerned about finding her attractive? Or are you afraid you'll make a face or something? I doubt you will as you ... (read in full...)
When should you stop thinking about a crush?
Q. When should a crush subside and you stop thinking about them? I have barely seen this guy, and it's been like 9 weeks! I keep dreaming about him. We never went but i sensed sexual tension. Should I stop or just wait until i see him again and be ...
A. 30 June 2014: It's pointless to think of him all the time if you are not going to do anything about it. So yes, talk to him. Be flirty, but just enough to find out if he is interested. Don't go overboard in case he isn't. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel ...
A. 30 June 2014: Why would someone stay in a relationship without wanting sex? Fear of being alone, security, you are easy to get along with, there could be a number of reasons. It's possible the reason he doesn't want sex is because he's not practicing moderation ... (read in full...)
I was wrong, I cheated and how do I turn things around?
Q. I cheated on my wife with another woman, she's 29, and now the thrill has worn off. She moans about bills and laundry, and once in anger said "Go back to your ex-wife". Well, I'm still legally married to her, but I quit the marriage for this other ...
A. 30 June 2014: I don't think you should try to work things out with your wife. The way you described your wife, it sounds like you not only don't find her nearly as attractive as this other woman you went out with, but you actually are a bit repulsed by her.
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