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Should I keep supporting my ex girlfriend, and is it irrelevant that she is seeing someone new?

Q.   I dated a woman for about a year, she is a single mother of two, and I am a single father of two. From early on, I fell madly in love with all three of them. She was struggling to get by when we first met, because she is a single parent, but also ...

A.   20 September 2010: Thanks for the responses I needed someone elses point of view on this. They are all greatly appreciated. To clear up some things for the first person who answered this: I didn't know that she was in this situation when we first met becaus... (read in full...)

I've never had sex with anyone but my ex

Q.   I'm a little embarrased by this but I don't know if I should be. Let's start off like this: I am a 25 year old, single mother of two beautiful kids. I was married for 6 years to my kids' dad. I have been single for almost two whole years and have ...

A.   19 September 2010: Don't worry about being embarrased. I just got out of a year long relationship with a lot of similarities to your situation. I was married young with very little experience with women. I am also old fasioned like that. We had a great marriage ... (read in full...)

I feel awful for cheating but cant stop thinking about this other guy. What do I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost one and a half years. I love him but hes needy and doesnt have many friends and no family so im the only one hes got. Hes very jealous and quite possessive but im very independant and have my own life. I have ...

A.   19 September 2010: The fact is - you already cheated. He is obviously not "the one" if there is something missing in your relationship, and leaves you wanting something different. If he was the one for you, my advise would be to tell him what you did and see if you ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

Q.   My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its ...

A.   21 October 2009: Moderator Note ***** This is from the origional poster ******* Thanks for all of your answers and opinions. I have been stuck inside my own head with this and it is good to hear someone else's thoughts on it. Part of me wanted everyone to tell ... (read in full...)

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