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Looking for advice from a gay man

Q.   Hello. If at all possible, could a gay man please answer a few questions for me. My gay friend has told me that he is always the giver and never the receiver. Does it work that way??? He says he does not like to take it up the butt. Also he h...

A.   2 November 2010: Seems to me like you are both tolerant of gayness and slightly confused about what it really is. Everyone is different and so is every (gay or not) relationship. Some gay men do not like to be penetrated and — like many women — many gay men do n... (read in full...)

We spend most of our time together and I can't hide my feelings for him

Q.   So I'm caught in a an awkward situation with myself. See I'm really good friends with this guy, let's call him Bob, we've been friends forever. We're both the same age, but the thing is I'm gay. He knows, I came out to him 2 years ago. He accepted ...

A.   1 November 2010: Question is : are you in love with him because you are or because you don't want to be ? Re-read this last sentence, it does make sense :) Is there a chance — however remote — that he might reciprocate your feelings ? If yes, why don't you risk... (read in full...)

Is he gay or just really nice?

Q.   So i've just recently met this guy whos friends with one of my friends. At first i just thought "cute", but then i talked to him and now i can't stop thinking about him. When he left i turned to one of my friends and was instantly saying "Wow, he...

A.   1 November 2010: I take it *you* are gay. If this guy is so nice, so understanding, so much against homophobia, etc. why don't you come out to him ? Find a way to let him know you're gay (if he doesn't already know) and see his reaction. At worst he will fi... (read in full...)

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

Q.   I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?...

A.   1 November 2010: Seems to me like your family isn't too keen on expressing affection but that there's a huge amount of love in you that's dying to be unleashed. Kissing and hugging your girlfriend a lot is not a problem if she likes it but telling her that you... (read in full...)

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