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Ex-girlfriend has moved on, though I just can't, for some reason....

Q.   So here it is...yet another guy who for some reason cannot get over what happened with his ex-girlfriend... I stress that it's not that I can't get over her, or even that I want her back just that I cannot get over what she did...it makes n...

A.   5 July 2010: i understand what you're saying....considering you posted it 3 times!...and yes i guess i am giving her 'the power'. if anything i wanted to know what (and i'll be honest when i say "if anything") i did wrong. ive cut all contact now and there's no ... (read in full...)

Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?

Q.   So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off ...

A.   4 February 2010: ok cheers guys. if anything i guess you're just telling me what i wanted to hear, thanks! and yes i know i'll eventually get over it...just didn't know if it was strange of me or not to still care for her. and still want some sort of frienship to ... (read in full...)

Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?

Q.   So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off ...

A.   3 February 2010: plus i forgot to say...the reason she started the journal was something that her therapist had recommended. something we had both agreed on and i had been fully supportive of...i.e. i had never looked down upon her for seeking help (like her ex ... (read in full...)

Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?

Q.   So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off ...

A.   3 February 2010: yes very good point. well she is french and hence the journal is/was in french so i knew i wouldn't be able to understand a word. i was just looking out for my name and the phrase "j'adore" or something...as a bit of a confidence boost i ... (read in full...)

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