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I hate myself for having this sort of thought before things are over with hubby!

Q.   I have known for a while now I would be leaving my husband at some point, and have told him on several occasions when i've been thinking about it, and he always says he wants me to stay and give him another chance. He treats me very poorly (NOTE TO ...

A.   5 April 2008: Things weren't always this bad, but my husband now controls who I can talk to, where I can go, yells at me, makes everything need to be my fault, exploits my fears to control me (I was sexually abused when I was younger and he knows just how to ... (read in full...)

I'm having an affair with a married man and his wife has thanked me for changing him!!!!

Q.   I have been involved with a married man for 2.5 years. I'm divorced for 1.5 years. my husband cheated on me and he used to hit me. he just never cared for my opinion. he spent most of our 8yrs of marriage in front of a computer and a dead end MLM ...

A.   5 April 2008: I am preparing myself for giving the unpopular answer, but I feel it is important for you to look from a different point of view. You are obviously okay with seeing a married man, he is obviously okay with cheating, and his wife is obviousl... (read in full...)

Is the withdrawing method safe?

Q.   me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we ...

A.   5 April 2008: As soon as a man becomes aroused there is something called pre-cum that has a very high sperm count, but you may recognize it as his "natural lube" any liquid at all that comes out. There are several reliable birth control methods out there, pulling ... (read in full...)

How do I help my daughter dump her controlling and posessive boyfriend?

Q.   My 19 yr old daughter has been dating a young man for a little over a year now. When she first started dating him I felt very uneasy about it. There just seemed to be something about him that triggered an alarm in my head. Within this year I have...

A.   5 April 2008: The best thing to do, really, is have her come with you to the police to file a restraining order and ask them about any resources they have or may know of for women in and leaving abusive relationships. For a while she may also feel more ... (read in full...)

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