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*angsteesexyface
writes:okay, so here's the skinny.at the begining of my relationship, i said " dont say you love me unless you mean it" and my boyfriend said, "okay". so then he says he loves me after like what? 2 weeks. and i really thought that i felt it too. but now we are 2 months and i dont love him. but i still say i do. because i care about him i just dont love him. and like, its hard because i dont want to hurt him and i dont want "our" friends to get involved. i mean it makes me look like a bad girlfriend, i am confused. We are saying "forever" and he says im the only one for him. come on. im young. i dont even know what love is yet. i want some time for myself. but i dont know how to tell him. So what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 At your age I wouldn't expect you to feel like you "love" your boyfriend. Explain this to your partner and stop telling him that you do as it is a little misleading. Explain the "forever" business is a little to heavy for you and you are feeling weighed down for your age. You should be having fun, whether it be with your boyfriend or being single. You may find after some time that your feelings are too strong for you not to be with your boyfriend, but if you need time then end it with him.
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reader, nicnac +, writes (22 June 2007):
I think the best thing is to leave him. Tell him that you care for him but are not in love with him. He may find it hard to start but there is no point in going out with someone if you dont love them. There are plenty more fish in the sea, you and him will find someone new and experiment with different partners then one day you will find the one and well you will just know that he is the one for you. Dont keep with him for the sake of having a boyfriend and in the long run people will respect you more if you leave him now.
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