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Am I In Love - How can I tell?

Q.   I think ive only been in love once before, i have a general knowledge of the feelings that come with it. Recently i have noticed a subtle feeling for one of my good friends. And i cant tell if this is just serious platonic love for that person, or ...

A.   30 July 2010: Hmm... It is hard to define 'love' exactly. But I know from experience that love is not merely saying 'I love you' and all that stuff. Sometimes love stems from a good friendship, I know mine did. My first love was initially my senior in my degree ... (read in full...)

How can I be ok with the result of my exam, whether I pass or fail?

Q.   i please need some big advice that will convince my self that everything will be ok. i am a student. and yesterday we have this exam. i study a lot for a past few 7 months.its actually give me a big pressure, depression and hard migraine. i was ...

A.   29 July 2010: I can understand your predicament. I am a tutor in the university, and I have seen some of my students who even had a nervous breakdown because of their exams. The pressure to pass and do well and the anxiety that you will fail are the main causes ... (read in full...)

I'm jealous of my best friend!

Q.   What do you do if you're jealous of your best friend. I know I'm not ugly..or horrible looking but I've always had low self esteem, no matter how much make-up, extensions..whatever I put on. She has a perfect relationship, nice body and gets ...

A.   29 July 2010: The root of this problem is low self-esteem and too much comparison of yourself with your best friend. At your age, it is normal to feel self-conscious and insecure, as that is the time most of us, being women, would like to be in love and being ... (read in full...)

Should I get it overwith and have a one night stand to lose my virginity?

Q.   Ok, so I'm only a few months off 21, and I'm still a virgin. Not feeling quite as alone in this as I just read another post from a 21 yr-old girl in a similar situation, but regardless, I feel that it's time to lose my virginity. I've never had a ...

A.   29 July 2010: I totally disagree with having a one-night stand just for the sake of losing virginity. Maybe I am conservative, but I will regret for the rest of my life if I have sex with someone whom I don't even love. That is because the 'FIRST' experience is ... (read in full...)

Friends have hurt me badly, I have great trouble forgiving them, how do I change??

Q.   I have trouble forgiving people. Old friends have tried to hang out and I don't want anything to do with them because they were so mean to me. I also had an ex-crush who rejected me try to talk to me online, but I just blocked him. I don't want ...

A.   29 July 2010: You know, I can certainly relate to this. There are people's mistakes which I can forgive and forget, while there are others which I can forgive but NEVER forget. I guess it depends on the level on HOW MUCH they hurt you. Confucius says, "An angr... (read in full...)

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