When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?
Q. This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...
A. 7 January 2011: Be honest. Lies never last and they can destroy the relationship. At least if you are honest, you can both decide if that works for you. The dishonesty can hurt worse than whatever is being hidden. Trust is a basic factor, a "deal breaker". ... (read in full...)
Window for the "Previous Sexual Partners" talk has passed... what do I do?
Q. Hello World, I had sex with my girlfriend on our first official date, and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place with finding out her previous sexual history. I was a virgin when I slept with her (and was blind-sided by the whole experi...
A. 7 January 2011: I have been married 28 years. This thought in your head may never go away. It hasn't with me. My wife won't talk. This has caused a lot of resentment and trust issues for me. There really is no perfect answer to this. Everyone is different. If it is ... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my wife's past?
Q. My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...
A. 21 April 2010: I can relate to the guys who have been married for 10 plus years without any issues and then this insecurity pops up.My wife was married before me. We hitched and started a family instantly. Work, kids and life kept us busy for 15+ years. We didn't ... (read in full...)
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