I want to talk to my ex but I'm terrified of upsetting his new girlfriend. Any advice?
Q. Alright, i'm not sure where to start, and i'm sure you've heard it a thousand times. The ex (we'll call him D) was my ex about 3 years ago. Dated for year and a half, thought about the marriage thing, didnt work out. He tried to come back into my ...
A. 9 June 2008: Just to clarify, i DO NOT want my ex back as a lover/anything else. Mainly i just want to talk to him as a friend and part on good terms. Thanks to all the rude responses, but truth be told i have cancer and would like to mend bridges while i still ... (read in full...)
Do I have an anxiety problem?
Q. i think i have an anxiety problem, but im not sure how i can tell forsure I always expect the worse to happen and my stomach will feel like its in knots and my heart will beat faster if something doesnt seem right to me. Like if my bf dosent s...
A. 9 June 2008: Yes, that is definatly anxiety. There are a few things you can do- there are medications you can talk to your doctor about that help calm you down. Sometimes thats best for awhile, till you can get a better handle on WHAT stresses you out, WHY it ... (read in full...)
What do I say when he talks dirty?
Q. i dont kno what to say when he talks dirty, i guess my question is what do you say back when he says how do you want it or how bad do you want it and i say really f**king bad and he says prove it how do i prove it?...
A. 9 June 2008: Thats when he wants you to prove it with actions usually, or beg/plead/throw him on the ground and make out with him, etc.
Guys are insecure by nature about things like that- they want you to want it before they can really get aroused. ... (read in full...)
Do people lie about hooking up with people to make their partners think more highly of them?
Q. do people lie about hooking up with people to make their partner think more highly of them?...
A. 9 June 2008: Honestly, yes, all the time. Almost everyone has looked up to their parents their whole lives, and so when they start talking about more personal parts of their lives, they dont want their parents going "WHAT?!" or "you slept with HOW MANY ... (read in full...)
I've been getting really weird prank calls....
Q. Ever since the beginning of 8th grade, ive been getting these weird prank calls on my cell phone. A few weeks ago, i recieved these messages from ppl who knew my name but i didnt know who they were cuz they blocked the number. They started talkin ...
A. 9 June 2008: Kids are just idiots- my suggestion is a) change your number b) try to garner proof and go to the police about it. Make sure to mention her name and have them talk with her- most likely it will scare her into shutting up. Usually people like that... (read in full...)
Jealous and possessive husband - how do I make him stop?
Q. My husband is extremely jealous and possessive. We've been married about 3 months, and he has accused me of an affair with an older man, who is my friend and who I bought my car from, it got really ugly and he roughed me up a bit. I denied upon a ...
A. 9 June 2008: If he's roughing you up or being possessive, you need to give him two options- he needs to go through some anger management and get some professional help, or you're gone.
I wish i could tell you guys change, but they dont. The more they get away... (read in full...)
I constantly feel he doesn't like having sex and I feel rejected.
Q. Hi I am 28yrs old and I have been going out with a 32 yr old man for about a year now. The problem is I constantly get the feeling he doesn't like having sex. when the relationship first began I felt a problem. where we were seeing ea...
A. 9 June 2008: I had an ex with the SAME EXACT problem. I tried to stick with it, thinking "hey he's been through a rough time, maybe it'll go away". Instead it turned into more and more of a possessive and selfish behavior, till one day i woke up and it was full ... (read in full...)
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