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New and improved boyfriend or more limbo land?

Q.   Okay, so I told my boyfriend of 5 years that I wanted a break. He just didn't seem that into me. We are both 48 and he just wasn't popping the question. He kept saying when the house is finished that he is building, he'll figure the rest of the ...

A.   5 October 2009: Both of you have excellent answers... I should add to my original question the following: My boyfriend has had an almost non-existent sex drive for the past 5 years. We rarely, if ever had sex. Maybe 4 times a year! One of the problems... (read in full...)

I spend my life dreaming of life without him...

Q.   I have been married for 10 years and am completely miserable. He's a lovely guy however we don't seem to have any common interests, everything I do seems to irritate him and he never wants to have sex with me. I spend my life dreaming about b...

A.   27 August 2009: This is one of the most difficult of situations to be in if you ask me. I have been there! It is so painful from all angles. But there are two things that seem to help. I never wanted to leave a marriage without at least going to a counselor (a ... (read in full...)

Why do people want and desire to marry?

Q.   This is not the rant of a commitment-phobic partner, it's a real and serious question. I plan on getting married. I want to and when I really think about it, I honestly have no genuine idea why. None. We've created this institution call...

A.   26 August 2009: My mother who has been married for almost 50 years told me once: Marry someone but then don't stop dating them. I think when people get married they feel like they acquired a goal. Then, like most of our acquisitions, we take them for granted. ... (read in full...)

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