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| | *oveShoudntDestroy's profile:I have a Bachelors Degree in Psychology and research psychology articles daily as well as other scientific journals that are relevant to relationships, as I am intrigued by human nature and different personality types. I am a people person and love love, but recently got my heart broken and found out what a real narcissist is and it's scary that I was deceived, manipulated, and hurt. I want to help others in similar situations see the light. I also want to bring awareness of self-care and the importance of spirituality/religion/God in healing ones heart and soul. Nothing changes if nothing changes and by helping others, I hope to also recover from a shattered heart myself. I just turned 32 a couple days ago, am single, live in Northern California and work as a Crisis Counselor at a domestic violence and emergency daycare non-profit agency. I thrive off helping people bad feel that this life is short and over in the blink of an eye, and heaven is for eternity so while I'm on this planet, I might as well use my experience strength and hope to help others not end up miserable, abused, neglected or unhappy. I myself am very happy to have found this awesome website and I appreciate all of you for being s part of it. Thank you and God Bless.??
P.S. I just started a relationship/life blog and it's still in progress: citizenofmankind.wordpress.com
And my email is citizenofmankind@gmail.com
Feel free to contact me about the Bahá'i Faith, other religions or any advice or comments you may have for me. I'm am open book and very easy to talk to. Thank you all again and have a blessed day!?? |
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I'm a thoroughly modern brand of old-fashioned
Q. I was particularly amused by a recent comment about my views. I was described as living in “the 1950s,” which I found highly amusing. But when I’d had my chuckle, I got to thinking: what would it be like to be stuck in the 50s? How does the ...
A. 26 November 2016: Hi there. I agree with you about having a choice today and I wanted to say that I appreciate your writing. It's well written yet easy to read and I really like how you relate certain aspects of life. I'm understanding now why your name is at the top ... (read in full...)
Please help: where is the line drawn between insecurity and stepping over boundaries?
Q. Hello, I was wondering how best to approach my boyfriend (of 3.5 years) and talk to him about something in our relationship I'm not happy with. We are usually very open and encourage communicating so I don't have any worries about him getting upse...
A. 26 November 2016: I would just communicate how you feel to him in a calmly way. Tell him that you don't mind the porn (maybe first try not to Always watch porn with him or only on special occasions..it shouldn't be the only way he's intimate with you..it's not fair ... (read in full...)
My crush. He's 20, I'm 17. Should I wait 2-3 years for him or not?
Q. I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him...
A. 26 November 2016: No way. I promise you it's not a good idea for so many reasons. A lot of American Men (and men in general) Only want sex, and will say mean things and string you along but never give you a real relationship. Also in America, it's illegal to have sex ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this destructive behavior?
Q. How can I get over the fear of being as ding up alone(not married with children) - this fear has lurked such insecurity that it had led me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and self centered - I've had one bf since I was 19-25(self ...
A. 26 November 2016: I am also 32, recently single and no kids. I focused on school and work and also have felt that I have to hurry up and find someone to marry and impregnant me. It's not only your fault but media, society, and the world puts stigma on women about ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to give another man oral sex.I am not happy with this!
Q. My boyfriend has been pressuring me into blowing another guy and I feel completely uncomfortable with the idea, I have told him this everytime he's asked and now he brings it up in the middle of sex or while he's dirty talking, I told him I'd ...
A. 26 November 2016: I'm sorry that you got put in this situation. I hate when love gets gross and ugly. Since you seemed to be in a monogamous relationship, I personally think think is not a good sign, and I sure as hell wouldn't do it-I have been put in bad situations ... (read in full...)
How do I force myself to want to care?
Q. Hey all, I wanna know more about how to be more sociable. I am tired of being the quiet, minding his own business guy. I was a very quiet kid and am a quiet adult today. The problem is not fear or lack of confidence. Infact, in my head, I'm the smar...
A. 4 November 2016: Pray. Feed your Spirit and pray to God for whatever you want, also toastmasters is a cool place to become more social, and speak confidently with ease in front of others. Open your mind to meeting new people to, if you really want to be more social. ... (read in full...)
If she liked me so much then why push me away?
Q. Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well. I need some advice about a girl i met just over a month ago. So ill tell you abit about the situation. So i met this girl on a dating site and we basically hit it off quick. I mean like we both talked l...
A. 4 November 2016: I totally understand what your going through and I'm sorry that you are hurting. First of all, she must really care about you as a person to give you an explanation at all. She sounds like a good person that has a lot on her plate including an ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have my number saved in his phone!!!
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now. One day, he lost his phone at my place. We decided to use my phone to call it hoping to follow the sound of the ringer. When I found it ringing, I noticed that my number was not saved in ...
A. 4 November 2016: In my experience, he doesn't want it to link to things like Google +, secret emails and certain things like (SnapChat and secret Facebooks you don't know about) If your number is an actual "contact" in his phone then it would link you two up ... (read in full...)
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