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*olly86's profile: Hey ho people, I'm 24 years old, live in the UK and am currently (as of November '10) single for the first time since I was 16. I'm still adapting. I have a full time job which takes up the vast majority of my life and recently I've been living to work rather than working to live. I am trying to change that. I have a rather insanely dramatic life. If I had a pound for each time I was told it resembled a soap opera I'd be a very wealthy woman. My ex, whom I was with for four years would be classed as 'abusive' by anyone I give details too. I however never felt abused. He was very young mentally and in the last few years of our relationship I looked upon him as a charge of mine, my responsibility. He was a chronic alcoholic who was consuming up too 12 litres of white cider per day at his worst. He was a psychotic, sociopath with some questionable sexual preferences. He suffered from what his psychiatrist refered too as 'The Dark Triad' the three most undesirable personality traits. Narcassism, psychopathy and machiavellianism. His criminal record is longer than his arm and he has no concept of emotions such as love. This man put me though most peoples idea of hell for four years but I still choose to see him now. I have amazed my own doctors with my ability to cope with anything that is thrown at me all the while drug free. My friends call me superwoman because I have so far proven to be unbreakable. My mother is a manic depressive who one month ago announced her plans to die by assisted suicide through Dignitas. My father attempted to take his life at Christmas and my best friend is currently in a recovery centre for addicts. But I'm ok. In all honesty I'm quite a happy person. I feel, I live, I cry, I laugh....I get on with it. My inner strength is my biggest asset. ....well that and my winning smile of course :D I'm sharing this because I'm very open about my life and would prefer people to have a basic understanding of who I am. I have a dry sense of humour and I am the agony aunt to most people in my life. I will advise where I can. I won't say anything if it's already been said and I'll keep quite if I have nothing useful too add. What I do say however won't always be conventional but will always be honest. I try not to make assumptions about others because I despise the same being done about me. I'm chatty and will pretty much talk to anyone. Don't be backwards in being forwards. I certainly won't. Chin up darlin' it ain't over till the fat lady sings!

In a long distance relationship, and we won't be able to meet again until 2012!

Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!

Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!

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