He's cheating, I keep forgiving him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, but I still have feelings that he is cheating. About 6 months ago he left his phone open to some messages from a girl he used to work with saying, "We should meet up" and "Your not just a plan-b ...
A. 1 May 2011: They don't change. The first time is a "mistake", and after you forgive them for that, they realize they can get away with it because you forgave them the first time. It will continue to happen. Don't waste your time on this guy. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a checkered past, should I be worried?
Q. My boyfriend has had a checkered past with other women. He went through a phase of lots and lots of flings. Had several going at once. One of them was a married woman who stays in contact with him. Should I be worried? Thanks!!...
A. 11 March 2011: If he had no strings attached flings in the past, it's one thing, but if he was dating someone at the time, and cheating on her to have these flings, I would certainly be worried. Been there, done that-they don't change.... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to feel that he doesn't spare a thought for my feelings?
Q. my boyfriend said he is going to put his studies and career on top of me. And he would leave me if he has to study abroad. How am I supposed to feel that he doesn't spare a thought for my feelings? We've been together for 19 months. He spends l...
A. 21 February 2011: I have been in the exact same spot, and I'm still struggling to figure out what to do. He clearly does not value you in his life, if he is willing to just up and leave. I'm not sure if men like this can change, and actually appreciate what they have ... (read in full...)
Is he screwing me over behind my back or is he just having harmless fun?
Q. I am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, but I keep finding emails from ads that he responds to on personals sites, and earlier in the year he had multiple ads up of his ...
A. 2 July 2009: Do I confront him about it? Afterall, I was kindof in the wrong too, I looked through his emails...... (read in full...)
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