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I had sex with my cousin and now I'm really regretting it!

Q.   Last night I had sex with my cousin. I don't know what I was thinking, it just happened. But I must admit I did come onto him first. When we were young we used to just "hump" and we didn't really care we were just kids being kids. But now that were ...

A.   13 June 2011: I will start with the 'is it a sin' part. Well, you haven't said what religion you hold, however I believe in most religions (those common in the west anyway) it is considered sinful to have sex before marriage. However, I think if you feel ... (read in full...)

Is this mom interested in me?

Q.   Hey guys. I'm a married dad with two sons. One of the mom's at my son's school has asked me for a play date with our kids. What does this mean? Could she be interested in me? Don't the moms usually ask each other? Should I say yes? Just wondering ...

A.   13 June 2011: Well it might be very innocent. You have to consider some things... Are you more reachable than your wife? For example, do you pick your sons up from school etc? Because if you're usually the parent who's easier to reach it is only natural for... (read in full...)

I didn't see my colleague on her birthday, but I will, later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card?

Q.   I work with a girl who's birthday was a few days ago. I didn't see her on her birthday, but will later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card? She's around 7 years younger than me (I'm 27). Whilst I don't really have a cr...

A.   13 June 2011: I think she would probably apreciate the thought. If you tink actually handing it to her might be awkward, you might want to leave it somewhere where she'll find (like on her desk or near her locker). However, if you think SHE might possibly... (read in full...)

Why won't he tell me it's over if he wants to finish with me?

Q.   hi i am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1 year and 5 months, he moved away a few months ago and i dont know why he doesnt reply to my texts, he`s never here any more, he aint loving or here for me any more. i ask him if its over he says no ...

A.   13 June 2011: Long-distance relationships are harder than close-distance relationships as time spent together will be less. However, they could work if both partners are interested in making that extra effort. I think you should talk it through with your boyfri... (read in full...)

I don't know how to talk to girls!

Q.   My problem is that i do not know how to talk to girls at all. I recently came out of my first relationship that was 3 years. This relationship was pretty bad as my ex would not allow me to talk with other girls and being young and stupid i went alo...

A.   13 June 2011: It is understandable that you will find the situation a bit awkward since you just came out of a long term relationship, and presumably, the last time you dated was before that. However, I think you might find it easier to approach girls i... (read in full...)

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