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Why won't my boyfriend distance himself from his ex?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They split up 2 years ago, and he and I have been dating for 2 years (and living together). The problem is that it really bothers me that she is still in the picture (after she dumped h...

A.   17 December 2005: Don't listen to that one post that talks about "extra loving" - - how juvenile and presumptuous! From your entry, it does not sound like your bf is interested in being with his ex. If he wants to marry you, rest assured that it's likely a solid ... (read in full...)

I'm so paranoid that the man of my dreams is going to cheat! How do I stop myself worrying?

Q.   I'm 24 years old and have met the man of my dreams! I know for sure he's the one because I feel it with every inch of my being. The problem is I feel jealous of his time spent with other people. I feel I cant trust him and am afraid he will che...

A.   27 August 2005: Aloha Friend: There's not much else I can add, since the others here have done a phenomenal job of "dissecting" the reasons and aspects as to the cause(s) of your fears. One thing I didn't see mentioned however, which I think is also importan... (read in full...)

Why does he need to be such a good friend to his ex-girlfriend?

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months. Previous to this he was seeing his ex for 5 years, she was married. They split up about 2 months before we met. My concern is that they are still really good friends, they talk on the phone regularl...

A.   25 August 2005: Aloha Friend: I have been in an extremely similar situation before where a guy I was seeing for a few months was newly broken up from his ex of 6 years... A lot of the things that you speak of (him wanting to be there for her) are actually ver... (read in full...)

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