I'm still in love with the "good" part of my husband so how do I get over him?
Q. So this is a follow-up from my last post.... I have decided once and for all to end it with my husband, but how do I get over him? I have 3 years of my heart, body and soul invested in this man and the life I hoped to live. He was my first and...
A. 26 July 2008: Thank you for all responses. I am not willing to give the relationship another shot...I have done this countless times and am tired of his empty promises as NOTHING has changed. For me to decide to get a divorce there is NO reconciliation, I have ... (read in full...)
Is doubting a relationship normal? Do all couples experience it on some level?
Q. Hi all, I'll try to make this as brief as possible! I broke up with my partner last year after being together for 3 years. I had spent a great deal of time obsessing about our compatibility, and I realised that life is just too short to spend s...
A. 25 July 2008: You are definitely not crazy! As other posts say, almost any differences can be worked out, but only if you both compromise or if one is willing to completely give into the other. It does sound like you are doing the compromising to be with ... (read in full...)
Is doubting a relationship normal? Do all couples experience it on some level?
Q. Hi all, I'll try to make this as brief as possible! I broke up with my partner last year after being together for 3 years. I had spent a great deal of time obsessing about our compatibility, and I realised that life is just too short to spend s...
A. 25 July 2008: In my experience, when you doubt a relationship there is good reason. I am in a similar predicament but he has given me ample reason to doubt our relationship...but as you said, my heart loves him and wants it to work but my logical brain says to ... (read in full...)
I had planned to leave my gay boyfriend, and then I lost my job. Help me!
Q. Okay - I am seriously desperate and need help and any advice I can get! The following events have all taken place in the past 6-8 weeks: 1) My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me for the 2nd (!)time. 2) He cheated with a man. (1st time...
A. 24 July 2008: I am in a similar situation as you, but not quite as bad. My husband and I just purchasd a home a few months ago (mistake on my part since the cheating occured before we were married, with 2 different women) and now I am highly considering leaving ... (read in full...)
How do I move on if he won't let me go?
Q. I dated my husband for two years and we have been married for one year, so a total of three years off and on, much of which was long distance. During this time he has cheated on me with 2 different women, had an inappropriate relationship with his ...
A. 23 July 2008: I have assured his parents time and time again that the issues with him and I have nothing to do with our daughter or them seeing her. I knew his family several years before we started dating so they know I want what's best for my daughter and I ... (read in full...)
How do I move on if he won't let me go?
Q. I dated my husband for two years and we have been married for one year, so a total of three years off and on, much of which was long distance. During this time he has cheated on me with 2 different women, had an inappropriate relationship with his ...
A. 22 July 2008: They despise him...they all think he was bad news from the start. The only people who support this and think I should try harder are his parents who say I am the best thing that's happened to him. ... (read in full...)
How do I move on if he won't let me go?
Q. I dated my husband for two years and we have been married for one year, so a total of three years off and on, much of which was long distance. During this time he has cheated on me with 2 different women, had an inappropriate relationship with his ...
A. 22 July 2008: I just don't understand him. He says he loves me, he says he is depressed at the thought of me leaving and has pleaded with me to stay, but the years we've been together I have cried more than laughed. I can almost pinpoint the good times, they ... (read in full...)
How do I move on if he won't let me go?
Q. I dated my husband for two years and we have been married for one year, so a total of three years off and on, much of which was long distance. During this time he has cheated on me with 2 different women, had an inappropriate relationship with his ...
A. 22 July 2008: To Tisha-1....thank you for the advice! You are correct that he does have a child from his first marriage and his constant need to not want to let her go or let her move on (although he would never actually WANT to be with her again, he was ... (read in full...)
I've just found out his passwords - do I sneak a peak at his emails?
Q. I'm having another moral crisis in my relationship, and dont know what to do... I've known my boyfriend for aboutfour years, we've been in a relationship for nearly two. Basically at Christmas last year I saw he had messaged one of his ex girlfrie...
A. 22 July 2008: Sadly I have been in a similar situation and, as other people have mentioned, I looked and found exactly what I thought I'd find. Regardless of what you find in his email, the things that you know of that he is doing are wrong!! I say look so you ... (read in full...)
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